Wednesday, 21 November 2012

Will Allah Only Curse Wife For Her Disobedience?

Will Allah Only Curse Wife For Her Disobedience?

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Will Allah Only Curse Wife For Her Disobedience?

Some Non-Muslims try to provide Hadith of Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.460 to prove that Allah is not equal with a woman (wife). The following hadith are

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.460
Narrated by Abu Huraira
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning."
And
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3257
Narrated by Talq ibn Ali
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire she must go to him even if she is occupied at the oven!"
And
"If a husband calls his wife to bed and she refuses, the angels will curse her until she gets up in the morning." [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]
And
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.122 Narrated by Abu Huraira
The Prophet (saws) said, "If a woman spends the night deserting her husband's bed (does not sleep with him), then the Angels send their curses on her till she comes back (to her husband)." , Etc
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Now What of husband refuses?
Will Allah curse husband too?

Firstly men are more attracted to have sex then females. It is highly unlikely and unnatural for a husband to refuse sexual intercourse when invited by his wife, if the husband refuses the invitation of his wife without any valid reason and causes his wife to sleep in anger, it would be safe to assume that the sin and ruling would be similar. Women have more complains that husband didn't satisfy her and thus man are considered to be more sexually attractive then a woman. Further more if a husband refuses same right is for wife that is said in Quran

Allah says in Quran 2:228
"And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses, marriages etc.) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect, etc.) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise."

Further more if a woman pleases her husband it is said that
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 286 Narrated by Umm Salamah
The Prophet (saws) said: "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise."

Quran 33:36
"It is not fitting for a Believer, man or woman, when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger to have any option about their decision: if any one disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong Path."

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